The reason why we come across this is that; we can find a numerous situations around us, people blaming others for their own failures and at the same time others who blame themselves for their failures.

What can be the reason why a same person can conclude on a fact in two different ways?

                The answer for this is their inbuilt “complex”; superiority or inferiority complex. Humans were born superior. But what happened after that. They conceived things from the society and they came to conclusions according to the way society treated them.

                Superiority complex up to certain limit is good, but the problem arises when the complex goes to its extremes. This can lead a person to take tasks which are above their capabilities. Superiority complex is generated either by the overkill appraisal by people or by the self esteemed goals to reach above others.

Whom do they harm?

                They harm themselves ending up in a position realizing their own potential. For some people this might be a huge mental shock which can make them a person with extreme inferiority complex. Even they can harm others, which is even more terrible that they will make others feel that they are inferior increasing their inferiority complex.

                Feeling inferior have never proved of having any advantages. It makes the person more and more cheerless ending up to a mental breakdown. Inferior feeling might have generated from some past experiences of childhood or some present situation.

What’s the solution?

                People should constantly look into themselves on their abilities and rate them to a proper level. People who has inferiority complex should stop comparing them with others (especially the one who make them feel inferior). Instead they should identify their skills and the talents which they themselves excel. They should understand the fact that everyone in this world is unique.

Have you consider yourself the most successful person?

                You should understand that there was many others who were more successful that you or there will be someone else, going to be more successful than yourself.

Do you feel you are not successful and worthless than people around you?

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                There is something common in guys who travel frequently in train. They always have dream of a hot sexy chick to chat with. But most times, I would like to say maybe every time; they end up with some senior citizens entertaining them. I think that’s the magic of Indian railway booking system. Any was as usual I got my co traveler a 55 year old village lady. It wasn’t so surprising for me that she filled all possible places available with her luggage.   I had to fight with her to sit on my seat because according to her I’m supposed to sit on upper berth.

                While the train had a pause in Surat, honey trembling hot came into the train and took the seat on my left side. Even though she is the reason for the story, I still have two questions. Did she take the seat because it was free or did she take because it was free and it’s next to me? Any way as I said there is one more thing which is common in guys who dream about these sexy girls. They won’t be able to talk if any angels materialize next to them. I planned a million ways to start a talk with her while the times dashed so that it was late for an introduction.

She asked me to plug-in her mobile charger to the plug near to me. With no second thought I took it from her and plugged it to the switch box. I tried to touch her hand and it felt so soft which drove my dreams so high.  I took this as an introduction so that I could smile each time she checks the phone for calls or messages.

                I was ogling her as her which gave goose pimple shot each time I look at her Meanwhile TTR came in and asked for the ticket. I gave mine for verification whereas she told TTR that she couldn’t take ticket as she was on hurry. So she paid the fine and got a temporary seat.

                As the train continued heading to Ahmadabad with the normal pace a huge sound came from somewhere like a blast of bomb. She suddenly hold my hand so tight leaning towards my body. I could feel her silky soft body on my arm. She hold me tight until she realized people around us are looking at her. I took this as a start, asking her name, about the travel and then about the reason why she is travelling without the ticket.

                Time fluttered as we talked and when I came to know that, she doesn’t have a boyfriend right now, our topic of interests widened. In between we had our dinner and at 8.00PM the lady wanted to sleep. So I shifted my seat to the one beside her. The longer we talked the closer we became, both mentally and physically. After an hour she had her hand on my thighs while explaining her previous relationships stories.

                We talked about culture, places, job, science, investments, love, travelling till 12.00 when the owners of the seats we were using came in. I had no problem as I had a reserved berth but she had to either find one unreserved berth, which seemed to be impossible, or sit near the toilet door and sleep. So I made an offer for her. I told her I can allow her to sit on my berth but only on one condition that she will have to entertain me over the night. Even though it was a blind shot she took that offer. I guess she had no other option.

                We sat side by side on the upper berth keeping our shoulder bags on the other corner. We talked, we played some small games, I showed her some magic, and we talked, talked and talked. It was getting colder and colder as time dazzled. I took out my blanket and asked her whether she want to share. It was too cold that she couldn’t resist getting into my blanket. I was confused on the fact whether it’s her hot body or my hot dreams which kept me warm.

                The subjects changed from common to personal, technical to relations. We were more over like a single body with two souls both looking each other into eyes. It was unexpected when we ran out of words and still we remained looking each other. She came closer and closer that I could see her red glossy lips burning with fire. My heart started pounding so fast while I could feel her heart beat too. She didn’t stop coming to me while I closed my eyes when she crush down her lips on mine. Neither did we move nor did we stop. We continued with that mesmerizing blessing through which we shared our thoughts.

                It was 2.00 AM when I found her on me having her best sleep she ever had. 6.30 AM I woke up leaving her in my magical blanket. I sat beside her feet till she woke up. At 7.30 she came back after having a brush. She was looking fantastic even in that sleepy mess. We continued our talk while I brought her a coffee.

                8.15 My station arrived and I had to leave. I took back the blanket from which still has her memory on it. With great antipathy I left the train. I walked away from the moving train through the platform thinking only about best train journey I ever had with a great regret that I couldn’t  ask her contact number.Similar Posts:

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I went on through the gully roads where there were a lot of cars parked on the side ways. I found a small cycle workshop on this side. This cycle reminded me of a village shop, where you can find all cycle accessories hanging. I didn’t have to move much before I realized that I’m heading in a wrong road. I found an end to the road and then I shifted my route.

This region was a bit more developed posh area of Mumbai. You can find the residence of successful people in Mumbai here. That might be one of the reasons why almost all the designer outlets are available. Those shops were crowded as almost every shops were tagged with SALE!

As I headed more I could feel the cal breeze of the sea even though I couldn’t see any coastal signs. That’s the sea side area where you can find the tranquility of Mumbai city. No disturbing sounds and cleaniness every where. I was in search for a good restaurant checked out some but couldn’t find any of them special. I kept on walking through the parkside which I found on the beach side. I couldn’t enter the park as the entry was limited.

On the way I saw a big walled area which was totally protected by armed gun men. I guessed that would be the American consolate of Mumbai. I couldn’t take the photo as the photography there was totally banned. After that I could find many resident appartments of centeral government staffs. That includes the residence quarters of Atomic Research Center. And at last I found a really nice restaurant from where I had some really good Punjabi dishes. I left the restaurant and headed to Bombay centeral railway station.Similar Posts:

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Sunday Walk through sky walk, it’s a really great experience. Mumbai have started building sky walks for pedestrians to walk to the destination from railway stations with out stugling through the traffic.

If you take an Arial view you can see this sky walk lying like gate wall of china. It’s big enough to accommodate two cars side by side. There is a direct entrance to the skywalk from railway stations. On the start I could see big pipelines which I think should be the water supply for Mumbai city. Sky walk is so clean and calm that I recommend this for joggers.

This has only few exits at selected regions. There were guards for every straight stretch of the skywalk. They didn’t allow me to stamp the scenic beauty around on my camera because of security reasons. This is the only option in Mumbai to enjoy aerial view of Mumbai.

I was watching the people around. The people who were using the skywalk were rushing for their needs. Whereas I could see youngsters enjoying kite flying as if they are flying in the sky. I could even see the kites of disappointments hanging over the branches of trees.

I kept on walking because I didn’t know where this is going to end. Walking over western express highway was one of best view in the skywalk. Instead of something flying over you, when you walk in a sky walk, you are walking above the cars.

At last I found the end point of this skywalk at Bandra kurla complex. It’s a newly developed commercial region to accommodate the increasing number of office population. This region was previously a marshy land. And this region still has a scope for development as the surrounding regions haven’t yet been acquired by someone as it is still marshy. Reliance building which are finished with high standards are found on the sides when we enter the bandra kurla complex. Whole offices of reliance will be shifted here soon.
Just opposite to this complex entrance I could see the Offices of ONGC and Indian oil. I returned the journey soon as I was late. As this whole sky walk is too lengthy for old or sick people they have provided seating on sides. I took a 5 min rest on a seat watching the sun setting on the west. When sun sets in the west Mumbai starts entertainment programs.

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