Society or a community exits with a single phenomenon. That’s rules. Youth might ask why we need the rules and why we should follow them. Before coming to that you should understand the evolution of rules.

A society or a community is a region of space around us. The social environment around us will change frequently. And always we just try to adapt to the changes around us. Like Darvin said some will survive coping up with the changes some doesn’t. So it became a requirement to maintain the environment around us that more than majority can survive. This environmental change is created by the decisions each one take in our life. Just because the individual decision has a major role in determination of this environment, which affects every ones environment, to make the environment joyful for everyone they together made a limitation for the individual decisions which can destroy the happiness or joy of others environment.

So it became a necessity of rules for every society. The society which creates rules which can be acceptable for majority of the population can survive more because it creates those enjoyable circumstances for everyone to live. If you check the history of the civilizations you can find that people tend to deviate from the society thinking that the rules are just the burden. When someone comes with a common idea of a new society without rules they split out from the society where they have stated and will create a new community without rules and burden.

But ultimately what happens? When those new societies come to existence they will start facing problems to their new environment. This might happen only after a few generations but that is inevitable for a society to survive. They will then realize the value of rules and the impact on those on their environment.

The tradition is something which is handed over from generations to generations. Traditions are the only things which differ from society to society. That’s the main reason traditions have a very huge impact on the human. Human has its creativity in him. But most of the things we do are what we have learned from others. So it does affect our desires and imaginations.

Take example of having dinner at the table, you can have food sitting anywhere or while watching TV but you will be psychologically satisfied only if you have the dinner around the table. The same happens with all religious and social traditions. For mental and psychological stability of a society or an environment you should carry on the traditions neglecting the ones which you cannot at any cost.

That’s the main reason why it’s important to have the major ceremonies in life celebrated in the traditions the adherents of the corresponding communities does. And it’s your decision to set traditions by adding your ideas so that it will be passed on.