Part 4 Rewind here: Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Love marriage Vs Arranged marriage… the traditional definitions (Love marriage – you elope & Arranged marriage – forced by parents) no longer holds good. Love is what is going to define your relationship but it is the society and your parents who are going to support you on the outside. An arranged love marriage is the way to go. It is very important that the boy and girl understand...

Its BarCamp time again in Kerala We are holding BarCamp Kerala 7 on 20th of December ! BarCamp Kerala(or BCK) is the biggest and coolest techy event in Kerala. For those of you who don’t know what a BarCamp is… BarCamp is an ad-hoc gathering born from the desire for people to share and learn in an open environment. It is an intense event with discussions, demos and interaction from participants who are the main actors...

Almost one year later… It was almost one year ago that I posted this on kenneyjacob.com What is there for me in the Mumbai Terror attack? One year after the Mumbai Terror Attacks. Let me pay my tributes to all those who died. Has anything really changed? 1 year later I am asking myself… Checklist: 1. Coming back to our Unity (Rather our dis-unity)…the only thing that we all seem to agree on is to disagree! Have to...

Bigger is Better When we talk about marriage the first thing that hits most of our mind is how we are going to live after marriage.Is it going to be Nuclear family or a Joint family! Now to be honest most of the girls prefer to be in a nuclear family rather than joint family – though my preference is still a joint family. Our generation has developed a narrow mind as the small apartments we live in. You must have seen most...

I am not an expert on law, but a friend of mine says that the Indian IT act is a bit too much. Regular defamation is treated as a civil case and defamation using information technology is treated as a criminal case. The discrimination starts here. Bloggers and email users are not united, but the main stream media is a united force  and no one dares even to make a statement against them. Pinarayi tried to close its mouth, but he...

Let us Live! In today’s economy it is mandatory for a women to work. But from the time she steps out of her house there are thousands of visible and invisible evils waiting to attack her. Most of us don’t even tell it to our family considering it is shameful or just a usual thing. Come friends let us share our thoughts and try to find out a way to get out of this.I would like to share a song of a crying women I have...

PART 3 For those of you who have not read the previous parts: Part 1 Part 2 The scariest part about marriage is the unknowns… “Am I taking the right decision? Is this the right time? Is this the right partner for me”. Boys and Girls did not really have to carry the burden of thinking about this as this decision rested on the parents and society… until recently. With more boys and girls making marriage their personal decision...