Lucifer Speaking - My Love Life - Part IV
My Love Life - Part IV
For those of you who have not read the first 3 parts:
Part1
Part2
Part3
After reading the first 3 parts I am sure many of you felt “there goes another script for a hit movie“. But the truth that stuck me is that - that is a real life story and is happening every day with youth all over the world - both boys and girls. And the worst part being that a lot of these kids loose their way in life after such an incident.
My Mom does a lot of counseling - I hear about a lot of such stories from her. And another thing that stuck me is how the children suddenly go against the parents and feel as if the parents have become the enemies. Of course it is your life - but don’t you think these human beings(that you call parents) who are at least 20 years older than you would have had more experience than you? Moreover one thing that I still have not been able to understand is - no amount of reasoning seems to help - they seem to be completely blinded by their emotion and feelings.
Do you have a similar story? Share it with us. Tell us how you got out of that gloomy world to move on and meet better people in life.
So what do you think went wrong? Why was this person not able to accept the break in relationship? How come people are not able to think more practically in life?
Finally what do you think should be done - since it seems like my friend here is falling into the same trap again and again.
For sure Love seems to be blind!
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October 19th, 2008 at 11:37 am
Just finished reading all d 4 “legendery” parts! hehe…btw..you seems to be a great friend…quite understanding! Congrats!!
Well I will share some tips to cheer up your friend…I dunno will it work or not?It all depends on the ability of your friends mind to ACCEPT!
Main problem is the wrong perspective abt life your friend (hearafter “F”) has! Real LOVE involves the dissolution of two souls into ONE - which makes the separation tooo difficult! (same as its difficult to separate the dissolved sugar from milk)
You can try many tactics like - Inviting F to your country for a pleasure trip! (A CHANGE ALWAYS DOES GOOD)
Ask F’s close friends here to take him along for a wonderful trip!
Talk to him continously abt his interests like MOVIES, BOOKS, ACTORS etc..
Please dont talk to him abt past broken relationships & pls dont hurt him!
Try to bring in new friends from different domains of life to his life! -Both boys & girls preferred.
Try 2 change his perspective completely-for this you (a close friend) have to understand his present views of life & then slowly inject some good prospects of life.
He might have the feeling that hes the WORLDS biggest LOOSER which keeps him DESP! Iradicate that….dont ever let its roots to stay in his life anymore!!
Make him UNDERSTAND that there are much much big loosers than him in this world-So he has gained a lot compared to those ppl! cite some examples too.
Bring him in the habit of praying, loving people, helping people. Joining & working with some good organisations/clubs will help.
Now If hes OUT OF LIFE completely, take him to some “HOW TO LIVE LIFE BETTER?” classes like “ART OF LIVING” by Shri Ravishanker ( I m not his promoter but I hv read many times that such things might help)
Afterall I will refer you a book - Its better that everyone reads such a one & is “RISING IN LOVE” by prolific author OSHO! His books will give you an insight to life, the unexplainable emotions etc. IT WILL BE GREAT THAT IF YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THAT BOOK TRULY, SURE YOU WILL BE ABLE TO HELP your sweet F