Falling in Love Vs Jumping into Love

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Peak time for love affairs is +2 and college. Many a times what happens is that we “fall in love” or we “jump in love”.

Falling is the natural way to go about it. Starting your relationship with out any intention of taking it forward, but you end up falling in love. This kind of love, even though the best love,  is hard to succeed as falling is never calculated and we live in a very much calculated society. The pair may be able to live together if they get married, but the society will always stand between them.

You jump into love when you go and make a commitment to someone, with out knowing the person enough. It usually happens that you like the person at the first glance and then you go propose and make a commitment. Jumping with out calculation also results in failures, the same problems, social pressure and incompatibility may also result since the pairs jumped into the affair without giving it enough time.

So whats the best method.

So Id suggest that we crawl into love, taking a small step at a time. Do your analysis, whether this relationship if started will succeed, who all can come in between, and if everything can be managed, take the slow route, crawl in slowly so that you can crawl out at any point with out much of a damage.

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9 comments ↓

#1 dino morea on 07.28.07 at 4:51 pm

hai kenny,
nice presentation of website. me to a person who dislikes the poems in school days.

but kenny i feel that fact in poems of school days are useful in facing our realities of life.
do u feel so.

yours loveling
classmate

#2 dino morea on 07.28.07 at 4:53 pm

have u experince any bad things

#3 Linju on 07.28.07 at 6:46 pm

Dearest Kenney,

I’m also of the said ‘crawling in love’ category and my feedback is that, at some point your analysis ditches you(maybe i’m of the very demanding type) and u end up feeling this girl is not for you. So, the underline is, you end up investing a lot of time and effort for a girlfriend but ending up only with a bunch of girls as just friends!

#4 admin on 07.28.07 at 10:06 pm

Poems help in real life ??????
Ive had good experiences in life… no bad experiences…. I consider them learning experiences.

#5 admin on 07.29.07 at 10:23 am

Linju… your calculation were wrong man, and you didnt crawl, instead you jumped.

#6 Jyothi M john on 08.01.07 at 4:46 pm

I dont think love is about falling, jumping, sliding, crawling or getting up…..
I think you guy’s are confusing Love with Infatuation. True Love is about Sacrifices……

#7 Arun on 08.06.07 at 12:25 pm

Is this really about love or arranged marriage in disguise ?

#8 admin on 10.02.07 at 10:06 pm

The concept is to arrange a love marriage.

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