Peak time for love affairs is +2 and college. Many a times what happens is that we “fall in love” or we “jump in love”.
Falling is the natural way to go about it. Starting your relationship with out any intention of taking it forward, but you end up falling in love. This kind of love, even though the best love, is hard to succeed as falling is never calculated and we live in a very much calculated society. The pair may be able to live together if they get married, but the society will always stand between them.
You jump into love when you go and make a commitment to someone, with out knowing the person enough. It usually happens that you like the person at the first glance and then you go propose and make a commitment. Jumping with out calculation also results in failures, the same problems, social pressure and incompatibility may also result since the pairs jumped into the affair without giving it enough time.
So whats the best method.
So Id suggest that we crawl into love, taking a small step at a time. Do your analysis, whether this relationship if started will succeed, who all can come in between, and if everything can be managed, take the slow route, crawl in slowly so that you can crawl out at any point with out much of a damage.
hai kenny,
nice presentation of website. me to a person who dislikes the poems in school days.
but kenny i feel that fact in poems of school days are useful in facing our realities of life.
do u feel so.
yours loveling
classmate
Comment by dino morea — July 28, 2007 @ 4:51 pm
have u experince any bad things
Comment by dino morea — July 28, 2007 @ 4:53 pm
Dearest Kenney,
I’m also of the said ‘crawling in love’ category and my feedback is that, at some point your analysis ditches you(maybe i’m of the very demanding type) and u end up feeling this girl is not for you. So, the underline is, you end up investing a lot of time and effort for a girlfriend but ending up only with a bunch of girls as just friends!
Comment by Linju — July 28, 2007 @ 6:46 pm
Poems help in real life ??????
Ive had good experiences in life… no bad experiences…. I consider them learning experiences.
Comment by admin — July 28, 2007 @ 10:06 pm
Linju… your calculation were wrong man, and you didnt crawl, instead you jumped.
Comment by admin — July 29, 2007 @ 10:23 am
I dont think love is about falling, jumping, sliding, crawling or getting up…..
I think you guy’s are confusing Love with Infatuation. True Love is about Sacrifices……
Comment by Jyothi M john — August 1, 2007 @ 4:46 pm
Is this really about love or arranged marriage in disguise ?
Comment by Arun — August 6, 2007 @ 12:25 pm
The concept is to arrange a love marriage.
Comment by admin — October 2, 2007 @ 10:06 pm
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Pingback by ‘Disruptive Technologies’ - Blog Review « Avid Blog Reader — November 28, 2007 @ 1:58 pm
Whats this ‘falling’ crawling’ ‘jumping’….?LOL! true “LOVE” is sth unexplainable…its a BOND between MINDS! thats all….May be a ‘COVALENT’ bcz they share each….lol
Comment by jojo — October 20, 2008 @ 6:50 pm
Those are different ways people end up in love. Your words say that you are inexperienced or in a trance state. Soon you will know what I am saying.
Comment by Kenney — October 20, 2008 @ 10:33 pm
By the time you crawl into love, someone else would be taking her hand
Comment by Charles John — October 23, 2009 @ 9:25 pm
Love is blind… yes, its blind where you hardly see only the tip of the iceberg… yes, its cool, isn’t it…..
Comment by Godwin — December 9, 2009 @ 10:11 pm
Further, its like the ebb and flow of the ocean… trying to reach out, yet loosing the grip and receding only to attempt it again…. never conquering the ultimate dream… but, tasting a portion of what it really is….
Comment by Godwin — December 9, 2009 @ 10:15 pm